How to make any kid happy

Teaching kids the right way to play football is something that can overpower most men. It is one teaching a kid an individual sport and a totally different matter to teach them a team sport. Kids have strong personalities, even though you may be inclined to believe that they are easy to steer into a certain direction once they’re on the field, they can put you through various “torture” sessions until they learn how to perform as a whole. If you have ever tried training boys ranging from 9 to 12 years, you know what I mean. It is a lot to take into and conflicts arise daily due to minor disagreements on the field or outside it. Luckily, my lawyer experience helps a bit with settling conflicts even in kids’ world.

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So, after a couple of weeks of constantly acting like a conflict mediator and many failed attempts to make them play like a team, I’ve decided I needed a collective action that would make all of them happy at the same time.  Though most kids in the team have good soccer equipment, I noticed that some of them don’t or have poor quality shoes, which means they might as well play barefoot like the Indians in 1948. So, knowing their size and with a clear idea of what kind of cleats they’d like, I’ve decided to buy the whole team new soccer gear or at least the basics: cleats, shin guards, shorts and shirts. It wasn’t an easy deal, but I managed to find it at an affordable price and good quality. It was a general joy when they saw them, the cleats on their favorite nuance, shirts that fit them well and were made with quality materials.

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I gave them their new football gear right before our practice that day. They didn’t wear them right away, but we finally had a good practice session. I still have to change some of the cleats because they didn’t fit 2 of the boys well, but, apart from that, everything went smoothly, even better than I expected.

I hope that from now on I’ll find other ways of bringing the boys together. For now, I’m planning to take them on a trip, so that they can connect and learn how to spend some time together outside the football field. I’ll let you know if the trip was a success.

For some awesome advice for coaching kids soccer, you can check out this site or this one.

My blog

I was an attorney for almost forty years. Once I retired, I started hanging out with some of my friends, and I quickly came to the conclusion that my physical shape was a major disappointment. I used to be into sports when I was younger and due to my hectic schedule, I was unable to go to the gym as often as I wanted to. Fortunately, my retirement changed everything in my life, in that I started having a lot more spare time that I could use to get back in shape. Not only did I manage to lose some of the pounds I had been wanting to lose for years but I also joined a gym and started learning a bit about boxing and even martial arts. I always enjoyed soccer, basketball, and baseball, and since I was a good player when I was in college, I decided to volunteer to a children’s charity so that I could help some kids coming from broken families deal with their issues.

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Eventually, I found that blogging was the perfect way to document my experiences as a trainer and even describe what some of the kids I work with have to go through on a daily basis. Sometimes, it’s heartbreaking to see what misfit parents are capable of, but all I can say is that nothing is as bad as it seems. I like talking to the children so that I learn a bit about their stories, and once I’ve done this I manage to correlate their issues with the training sessions so that they’re able to work on their problems by sticking to a sports routine.


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Whatever the workout or training I teach, I’m always careful to explain that, while boxing and other martial arts are fundamentally violent sports, they should never be used to attack someone. It goes without saying that learning several self-defense techniques is never a bad idea, but if it’s possible for a person to avoid clashing with someone else, I urge them to do so.


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Children enjoy sports far more than adults, and that’s why I find it so easy to work with them. They never complain about being too out of breath especially when they’re competing against one another. In my opinion, sports and getting good exercise while you are still young is key to shaping your body later on. I’ve seen that people who go out jogging ever since they were seven years old almost never put on a lot of weight in the long run, and as you know, obesity is always on the rise in the United States. On the one hand, I’m acutely aware of the fact that most individuals put on weight because cheaper food is packed with calories, and many Americans don’t afford to buy healthy snacks. On the other hand, because working schedules are so busy, few people get to work out. Besides, workout equipment costs a lot of money. A few light exercises in the morning and the evening never hurt anyone and neither did jogging during the weekends. I’m hoping that my experiences will allow you to learn more about sports, in general, and their beneficial effect on child development.